Looks Like I've reached a capacity on this Blog, so I need to either . Clean everything off and start a new or call my web hosting company and buy more space. I'm debating as to what I should do. I am in a money saving mode these days, but I'm also wondering if I want to let all this material go.
You'll know in a few days, what I've decided.
In the meantime, I want you to watch this
short film by Zack Arias. He's become one of my heroes. I'm 49, I don't have many 36 year old heroes. So why is he a hero?. His photography is great.
www.usedfilm.com . And he taught me so much about lighting in a short one day seminar I took last year. That's part of it, but not all of it, not even a big percentage of it. It's a certain ruthless honesty that he has about...life, and death, and art, and faith, and politics (we disagree), and just this general sense of integrity he has about living.
He's a hero, not because I want to be like him, but because he seems to be so much himself, that it makes me want to be more fully myself.
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A week ago, I lost a friend. Ralph was 59, married, with two kids in college. He had heart attack last Thursday night. 6 hours of surgery and they couldn't save him. We buried him earlier this week. Ralph was not my best friend, not a close friend. But he was a friend.
He was also a hero. Why? He was one of the kindest men I knew. He was quiet, unassuming, but he was the type of person who's greatest joy in life was doing something for someone else - no strings attached. He would help you paint your house, or fix your car or drive hundreds of miles out of his way or any one of a million things. And if you tried to pay him, or offer anything more than a Thank You, he would be offended. These days, I'm thinking of a new slogan WWRD - What would Ralph do?
He's a hero because he modeled a life of faith, that was rarely, maybe never based on words, but based only on actions.